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Common Sense About Kids and Guns: California Information * Centers for Disease Control |
Suicide Myths and Facts: |
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Recognizing Warning Signs of Suicide Sometimes teens feels so depressed that they consider ending their lives. Remember, however, ALL YOUTH ARE AT RISK!!! One in five has suicidal thoughts and one in ten will make an attempt.
Pay attention to talk about suicide. Ask direction questions and don't be afraid of frank discussions. Silence is deadly! DO NOT take it all on yourself. Do not take responsibility for making your family member well. You are not a therapist. DO NOT agree to keep your teen's confidence. It's not betrayal, it's help. Think how you would feel if you kept the secret and lost a family member. BE SUPPORTIVE. Let your teen know that you care and should not feel ashamed of their condition; it is not their fault. Stand by your child through the recovery period - treatment will be successful in time. |
Youth at Risk: |
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High Risk Groups Depressed Youth: Depression can cloud an individual's thinking, making it more difficult to evaluate life stressors and to think of alternative solutions to problems. Angry, Acting-Out Youth: Typically, these youth tend to have fewer successes in life, and have ineffective coping skills. Anger management problems and qualities such as impulsive behavior, acting before considering possible consequences, are common. Ethnic Minorities: Some Native American Tribes have youth suicide rates higher than the national average. Asian and Pacific Islander females have high suicide rates. Youth Alcohol/Drug Use: At least one-third of youth who complete suicide are under the influence of alcohol or other drugs. Alcohol and other drug use can impair a youth's ability to think clearly and reduces inhibitions that might otherwise keep a youth from committing suicide. Depressed or impulsive youth who are also involved with alcohol and/or other drugs are at very high risk. Gay and Lesbian Youth: Adolescents struggling with sexual orientation issues often find themselves rejected by family and peers. Compared to other youth, the incidence of suicide attempts among gay and lesbian youth is higher. Gifted Youth: These youth often feel enormous pressure to be perfect at all times and believe they are loved and admired not for themselves, but for the accolades they receive and special abilities they have. Learning-Disabled Youth: Difficulty learning can lead to low self-esteem and depression. These youth face special and often difficult challenges in the classroom and the extra stress to complete their work could cause feelings of sadness strong enough to cause suicidal thoughts. Unexpected Pregnancy: Girls may feel their lives are out of control and that choosing to die is the only real choice they have. |
All Teens Are at Risk! |
| We have learned, from our own personal tragedies, that all teens are at risk. Many of those who completed suicide showed no typical warning signs, had made no previous attempts and did not talk to anyone about their suicide plans. Young people in this much pain are very likely to carry on
normal lives until the moment of their shocking, fatal act. Parents must operate under the premise that all teens are at risk of suicide - even yours!
Depression is a disease with a specific pathology. Chemicals in the brain are depleted when the person is severely depressed. A certain chemical, found in the orbital cortex of the brain (where reason is controlled), is at extremely low levels or completely gone in autopsies of suicide victims.* When these chemical levels are low due to depression, and judgment may be further impaired by drugs or alcohol, and with easy accessibility to guns, pills, etc., ANYBODY can fall into the abyss and make the wrong decision to end his or her life. It may be the person you least suspect ... and often is. *American Foundation for Suicide Prevention For a list of warning signs and steps to helping a suicidal teenager, click here. |
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