Stay with the person—you are their lifeline!
Listen, really listen. Take them seriously!
Get, or call, help immediately!
| Yellow Ribbon Suicide Prevention Program® is a community-based program primarily developed to address youth/teen/young adult suicide (ages 10-25) through public awareness campaigns, education and training and by helping communities build capacity. The program assists and empowers communities in identifying resources, building their infrastructure, and educating adults and youth alike through safe and effective suicide prevention messaging to ask for help for themselves and how to respond to others asking for help. The program helps reduce stigma associated with asking for help and strengthens the link between young consumers and professional help. |
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A Message to Parents ...All teens are at risk. The very thought that a teenager might wish to end his or her own life is nearly incomprehensible. Although we, as adults, view their lives as just beginning and full of potential, teens often feel very isolated and unable to cope with the rapid changes that occur during this time. Everybody recognizes the teen years as difficult and volatile (for parents as well as for teens). We have learned, through our own personal tragedies, that all teens are at risk. Many of those who completed suicide showed no typical warning signs, had made no previous attempts and did not talk to anyone about their suicide plans. Young people in this much pain are very likely to carry on normal lives until the moment of their shocking, fatal act. Parents must operate under the premise that all teens are at risk of suicide - even yours.Depression is a disease with a specific pathology. Chemicals in the brain are depleted when the person is severely depressed. A certain chemical, found in the orbital cortex of the brain (where reason is controlled) is at extremely low levels or completely gone in autopsies of suicide victims.¹ When these chemical levels are low due to depression, and judgment may be further impaired by drugs or alcohol, and with easy accessibility to guns, pills, etc., anybody can fall into the abyss and make the wrong decision to end his or her own life. It may be the person you least suspect ... and often is. ¹ American Foundation for Suicide Prevention If Somebody Hands You A Card: See our page San Diego County Emergency Resources What You Can Do:
* "Talking about suicide is the first step in trying to avoid it. It's the act which may break through the terrible isolation that a kid who is feeling so much pain and so desperate would be experiencing." - Dr. David Bergman Teens and Depression:Depression can cloud an individual's thinking, making it more difficult to evaluate life stressors and to think of alternative solutions to problems.Pay attention to talk about suicide. Ask direct questions and don't be afraid of frank discussions. Silence is deadly. Do NOT take it all on yourself. Do NOT take responsibility for making your friend or family member well. You are not a therapist. Do NOT agree to keep your friend's confidence. It's not betrayal, it's help. Think how you would feel if you kept the secret and lost a friend. Be supportive. Let your loved one know that you care and should not feel ashamed of their condition; it is not their fault. Stand by your friend or family member through the recovery period ... treatment will be successful in time. Online Resources:Warning Signs and Steps to Helping a Suicidal TeenagerTeen Suicide Warning Signs Teen Advice Online TeenHelp Online Support Light for Life/Yellow Ribbon Suicide Prevention Program®: All contents copyright © 1998 - 2007 by The Light For Life Foundation of Southern California. All rights reserved. |
